Impatience

Its a commonality in our day in age. Everything moves faster than it ever has since the dawn of man. We now get news updates on current happenings minutes after they have happened, and the news is updated frequently. We put entire entrees into microwaves and they are ready in 15 minutes or less, where it would have taken 4 hours just 10 years ago. We can buy clothes in our size without even trying, instead of having to go to a tailor to get correct fitting clothes. So, as we have become used to our fast paced world, we get annoyed and impatient when things are not immediately available and things arnt going as fast paced as we would like them to. We tend to get fed up and move onto something that we think may do whatever we need it do to faster. The downside to this technological world however, is that people have lost the will to be patient. They have lost the idea of "Good things come to those who wait." mentality.

How exactly, does this tie into the online sex working industry? Well, in many ways really. a job such as this is sales driven. The first thing that brings them into your room is the screen shot they see. A little peak of what you are doing. If you look like you are enjoying yourself, they will most of the time enter. Then it is your job to keep them in your room by keeping them happy and intrigued enough to not move on...To stay interested in what you are giving and to make them want it enough to actually buy your product. The viewers are able to read your body language on a subconscious level. They can tell when you are bored, fed up, and being impatient. And when they are wanting to take their time to talk with you, play with you, and hang out with you then eventually fap to you cumming; the last thing they want to see is you being bored because it isn't sexy.
   So as far as the, not getting impatient with your viewers not tipping you enough, or you not earning enough; There is hope. There are ways to get past this and learn to be patent again!

1. Smile. Even if you really arnt happy. Just do it! there is scientific evidence that if you keep a smile on your face for more than 3 minutes when you are any type of stressed, that endorphins will be released into your body making you happier. This, in turn, will make your viewers happier to see you, making them talk more, so you may flirt with them more, making you more money. Its just a really big happy circle! 
2. Move from where you are currently camming from. Sometimes we get bored with out background without even realizing it. This ties into the subconscious level. If you get bored, your viewers will to, making them not want to tip you, making you unhappy and impatient. The new spot, even if  its just the opposite wall, could change everything for you.
3. EmergencyCompliment.com
4. Don't be afraid to give something out for free. The best companies always give out free items. For you it would be bending over just enough for them to see the outline of your ass, or a quick nip slip.
5. When trolls come in your room, have a good time with them. They are in there to try and bum you out. To hurt your feelings. That is their main goal. All you have to do is piss them off by not letting them get to you! It excites your room to see you playing around with these trolls and just brings back fun into the situation. 
6. Communicate. Make sure you are keeping in touch with your followers. If you are not able to be on during your usual time. Let them know and give them a little picture to have for the evening while they wait for you to come back. The more you talk with the offline, the more they will think of you and remember that you are there! So you dont get forgotten, you dont forget them and everyone can continue to have a good time.

You can use pick and choose these tools to your liking. Find out what works for you. The key is, to keep yourself going. An object in motion, stays in motion. And it is definitely hard to pick up the pace again when it slows down. But no one has ever gotten success without putting in their time of hard work. Keep on being sexy. Flirty, and lovely ladies and gentlemen. 

Until Next Time....

Bell

Chaturbate.com/heresheis

My work as a Cam Girl.

I've been doing this since May 8th 2011 and can easily say, that this right now, is my job. No, no no. Let me correct myself. Right now, this is my small personal business. I promote my work, set up my area and break it down every day. Do upkeep on my equipment. I stay in touch with my investors through multiple networks. I have tech support when me electrical equipment falters. Keep in touch with my start ups and have guests come into my room. Most importantly, I pay my taxes. I am very much a one woman work horse most of the time. I consider this my job. Therefore I act like it.

        I wake up after a long night of work. My shift ended at about 3:30 a.m., went and said hello to some friends. Took off my make up and laid my head down by 4:30 a.m.. I wake up to my son begging for Elmo and Cookie Monster at 8:45 a.m.  on the dot just like any other day. I roll out of bed, put on some shorts and head out to the living room, turn on the computer and start some eggs for my kid.  The day goes by pretty much like this, keeping my kiddo busy with this activity or that, making meals, washing clothes, vacuuming, taking out the trash, running errands  going to school online, working out with my 2 year old and then waking up my husband at about 5 pm so he can get ready for work. I make them both dinner and send my husband on his way by 7:40 so he wont be late.
          As I am getting my child ready for bed I start to plan my evening at work........ What shall I wear? Do I want to put on make up tonight or go all natural? What will my goals be? How many do I even want? 4 goals? No, thats too many. Lets say 3 and add more if I need to.  Man I hope XXX and XXX are there I really need to talk to them about their prizes. I wonder what XXX is doing, I haven't seen her on cam in a few days. I hope she didn't leave. I love watching her work. I wonder if I will get another fan club member, that streak last week was crazy! Oh fuck, I forgot to make a video. Dammit XXX and XXX and XXX are gonna be upset! I'll send them some photo's to tide them over. Man I gotta find some time to catch up on content....... My brain is already in work mode and I'm just sitting there, waiting for bedtime to come so I can get ready. I guess I will tweet to everyone since I'm just sitting here! Its been a few hours anyway! Oh look! XXX texted me, FOUR HOURS AGO, OH CRAP!.
            Once the sand man has come to take my kiddo to dream land I set my area up. Vacuum the floor once more. Set a few towels aside on the couch. I never have enough of them. Go change into what I'll wear for the evening. Man...I really need a new outfit. I've ripped this orange thing all to hell. Ugh, eventually! Then my eye contacts go in. I always hate how my brain feels when I only have one in, so I try to put the second one in as fast as possible so my vision evens out....Brush my hair, fuss over my face then end up just putting on eye liner instead of a full face. Brush my teeth then leave to the front room. Turn on my over head lighting and my back lighting to see how the room looks on the demo page of Chaturbate. Looks like I'm not getting washed out by the computer light. Perfect. Then I go and light my candles, and pick a neat spot to put them. Oh, I almost forgot my toys! Running to my room, I open my wicker basket and pick a couple of things to work with for the evening. I set them on the floor next to me in the back ground. Send out a tweet to let my followers know I'll be on in a few moments. Grab a glass of water and gulp it down. Gotta stay hydrated!
         After a long busy day of house wifing, college girling, and errand running, THEN finally pre cam prep, its time to go online. I take a few deep breaths to clear my head of all my daily stress so I can be relaxed, and happy with my fans. No need to burden them with my problems right now. We're all here for sex. Pillow talk comes later on in the evening when things are winding down. I click the broadcast button and I'm online. Smiling at an empty room I go over to twitter, let out a little link to my room, and email everyone following me. Thank god for that email system. People start walking into my room. We are all pretty much greeting each other at this point. As everyone comes and and says their hellos to each other I set up my first goal for the evening. A simple goal. One that everyone overall seems to enjoy being a part of. Nearly all of my regulars come in at the same time. About 15-30 minutes into the session. My mods always seem to come in just in time. Keeping the room in line for me, so I can just do my thing.....
          Its 4:00 am...its been 5 hours. I made my daily earning average go up by 17 dollars. I gotta do that one thing again for sure. So exciting! As I'm talking to my lovely follower that always stay until the end. We talk about our days. How they went. The ups, the downs and of course the pervy parts. We greet the stragglers as they come in and let them know of the wonderful show they missed. Let them tell us about their day and why they weren't there and keep on talking about sweet nothings until its time for me to go to bed and do it all over again..I shut off my camera, say good night to twitter, then text the follower that were there and give them good nights and thank yous as well. I love being able to text them whenever. They are wonderful sounding boards when I'm stressing about anything. Truly good people. I go into the bathroom, remove my contacts, take off my makeup, brush my teeth. Then go back into the living room and tear down my area and slink into bed.... Its 5:00 am. I'll only get 4 hours sleep at the most tonight if I'm lucky, but I really don't think I would trade this for anything right now. I get to stay at home with my favorite person, go to school, and be a loving wife to my husband. I am able to explore my sexuality safely in the comfort of my own home, and still able to meet people who I consider my friends. This little camera keeps a roof over my head and clothes on my back and food on my table. Its just what I need right now, and Its my job until further notice.